Dear Glampa, When deciding between two Doms, how would a sub go about choosing? They don't know about each other and they both think the sub belongs to them. Asking for a friend. Signed, Sub-Lime! Dearest Lime, Um, keep both and they can mind their own business? The world is your oyster, so give 'em both the clam!  This decision lies within your hands.  If you're unsure which to choose, (and are sure you must choose) decide on one.  If it feels right, then you've made the right choice. If you are immediately  saddened by your choice, well... (I'm sure you can figure it out from here.)  Don't forget your safe word!  xox The Glaminator